Photo credit: Sandeep Banerjee
Almost three years ago we brought home a tiny, golden furry friend. We named her Muffin because we thought it was apt for the cute little goldie she was and the majestic golden retriever she would grow up to be. While I would like to say that I fell in love with her instantly, it would be a lie if I did. Well, I was no dog lover and having a furry creature toddling around the house, pooping, peeing, nipping, shedding – well, it was far from the rosy picture of owning a pet that I had in mind.
To cut a long story short, we took oodles of time to get used to each other. We tip-toed around each other, gave it time and space and went with the flow of things. As weeks turned into months, we began understanding each other. “Oh, she really doesn’t like me chewing her contact lens cases!” Muffin understood finally. “Oh, she doesn’t really mean to bite when she comes hopping towards me for a quick nip!” I understood. We understood lots of things about each other, and then some about life.
With Muffin by my side, I don’t really need to look at books or posters for inspiration and life’s teachings. She’s taught me so many things, much more than most people have. Here are five:
Don’t expend energy on things/people/situations that you don’t like. Just ignore them and find something better to focus on.
Live in the moment. Don’t mope about the past or worry about the future. Enjoy the gift of the present moment.
There’s nothing like a good jog or a long walk to clear your head.
Looking for inspiration? Just get out of the house and look around. There will always be something interesting to enjoy.
Be nice most of the time and be fierce only in situations that really demand it.